What were they thinking? Maybe they did it for the money, the fame, or for true love, but why would anyone submit themselves, let alone their relationship, to the unforgiving pressures of reality television? Just in time for Valentine’s Day, let’s reflect on some of the more public failed showmances. From the Newlyweds “Chicken of the Sea” incident to Bachelor Pad drama, Snakkle looks back on some ill-fated love affairs, reality TV show matches (or mismatches) and marriages that didn’t survive real life.

Celebs have been tweeting like crazy this past summer, and many of their Twit-pics show them cavorting on beaches and on vacations in the teeniest, tiniest bikinis (hello, LeAnn Rimes!). But our favorite beach-ready stars are those 40-and-fabulous stars who have been spotted in bikinis looking stunning and who inspire us to aim for their same fit frames. While summer may be coming to a close, this crop of beauties will keep us inspired well into the New Year to hit the gym and pick healthy fare over our favorite junk foods!

Outspoken, witty, a self-made success story: Bethenny Frankel is that rarest of reality stars, one who’s actually a role model. She’s a chef and an author, a businesswoman and a mother, and while she’s aired much of her personal life on TV, it’s never felt tawdry. Here are some memorable moments from her life and career.