What were they thinking? Maybe they did it for the money, the fame, or for true love, but why would anyone submit themselves, let alone their relationship, to the unforgiving pressures of reality television? Just in time for Valentine’s Day, let’s reflect on some of the more public failed showmances. From the Newlyweds “Chicken of the Sea” incident to Bachelor Pad drama, Snakkle looks back on some ill-fated love affairs, reality TV show matches (or mismatches) and marriages that didn’t survive real life.

While the stars who command the concert stages of today have everything perfectly coordinated and styled to enhance their successful musical personas, they didn’t all start out with stylists, choreographers, and a crew of hundreds backstage. See what these musical stars looked like when left to their own devices to style themselves back in the day!

Sure, they’re (mostly) cool now. They’re music legends, hit makers, trendsetters. But back in the day? Not so much. The funny thing about nerds in high school is that they often grow up to be the smartest and most successful people around. So take note, you aspiring music superstars: Just because you’re a nerd doesn’t mean you won’t make it big.